The organizer, Trisha, is my friend’s daughter. AND this is a humane thing to do to help get oxygen into parts of India. Please help with anything you can! Thx.
I forwarded the fundraiser to my contacts in LinkedIn, FaceBook, Twitter etc., since it follows what I think of ZenjiNet, helping others do good easily. Everyday, I look at the news and find many needs at different parts of the world and I pray/chant for helping to relieve the pain & suffering of the living, and sending the dead peacefully into their next destination. Let’s do our small part so it is a better place by just that much.
As the second (or third?) wave of Covid rages on in various parts of the world, even parts that are gradually re-opening are not completely fine. We are still under an unspoken spell, the kind that can kill especially our younger generation. My friend Simon sent me an article while I was in New York with the family celebrating my son’s graduation from Columbia law school. I was disturbed while reading and walking in Central Park, and really wanted to do something for the family and perhaps best is to relay the article here and offer my assistance in spreading the awareness. https://people.com/human-interest/grieving-dad-whose-12-year-old-son-died-of-suicide-warns-parents-no-one-saw-this-coming/
Young Hayden took his own life at the start of pandemic lock down, not able to meet friends at school and have any social activities. The sense of hopelessness is probably a strong sentiment among youth during pandemic. His family is not poor by any means but they never saw this coming. Hayden was a leader in school and played football; social, and liked by his friends. Not a picture of depressed youth, and yet it happened. In Clark County Nevada, since Covid started, 24 students have taken their own lives, almost 3 times of norm. Covid is killing our youth in more ways than one, and we need to be more aware in talking and guiding our youth.
Dad Brad put out a video to share what happened and calls for all parents to be alert of the mental health issue (https://haydenscorner.org/almost-thirteen/). He also created a foundation (https://haydenscorner.org/) and now lives a very changed life since the tragedy. We cannot tell the mental trauma from outside, perhaps it is necessary to explore more internal thoughts? Coincidentally, saw someone posting today that ‘I rather hear your depressed thoughts than you are dead’ or something to that effect.
Crude but true. We may not like to hear depressed thoughts, but if that is where you are at, talk to someone. In buddhism teaching, we say there is no constant, so no matter how bad (or good) things seem, it will pass; tomorrow is always another day and you don’t know what is in store. We can only control our own intention and sow seeds of good deeds so we can reap the rewards later in this (or next) life. Another buddhism teaching is Samsara, loosely translating to reincarnation, which viewed negatively means repeated cycles of birth, misery and death caused by karma. But it also means that our karma changes according to our own deeds and that familiar souls travel through life in very connected ways. Karma and Samsara are actually inseparable. But we can learn to control our intention and deeds, in turn, impacting our karma and samsara. Please like, comment, share and follow.
Having studied how Buddhism and chanting could help calming our minds in the last few months, I came to realize most of the goals I had in life had been exclusively for mine and my family’s benefit. Today I turned on some music to relax a bit and heard the song by Mariah Cary, Hero. Tears started to stream down my face; so much lost time, so self-centered goals in life, I was ashamed of not even thinking that helping anyone else could be my thing.
We say God created man in His image. And/or we all have Buddha within us. Somehow, between our childhood when we feel everyone should be equal, to when you look back your own path, realizing that you let so many opportunities go by to make a difference, do good, and fulfill our life purpose. Between all the ROI/Cap Rate and other metrics we use, we forget that what matters in life may not be measured by these metrics. We look for others to be the heroes helping others, and we hide behind to care for our own livelihood. In the end, we are the heroes we seek. Just be a little braver, care a little more. We can change the world in a small part.
And it is certainly easy to think we want to care and be kind, but to really do some good it will take real action. I am setting aside $500 to help homeless people, by donating to a non-profit group called ShelterSuit. Each suit cost $60 and I would like to do a matching donation (receiving a $30 donation, match $30 to get one suit). With the matched donation of $960 we can buy 16 suits to help 16 individuals from cold/rain. Not a big number, but please help so more homeless folks can benefit. ShelterSuit founder ( a young Dutch designer Bas Timmer) also calls for a one night Sleep Out. See more details at https://sheltersuit.com/about-us/. Please like, comment or follow, Thanks!
Zenji (善事）means good deeds in Japanese. I have been contemplating how I can help others lately. Being unemployed, I have joined a FB group which supports many who are on unemployment. I have seen so many folks that are dependent on the UI payment from the CA and Fed government. It pains me and I really want to reach out and help each person and family in a bad or less than ideal situation. Of course, I realized that I myself, as one person, there are very limited things I can do to help.
But I don’t think it is just me, many of us would like to have a place to do good deeds to others, paying our gratitude and good fortune forward. In budhaist belief, this is one way to build happiness for one’s current and future life. And in the western thinking, as the golden rule says “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” So Zenji Net can be a place where many contributors do good by helping those with less resources, which may not be limited to financial help, but perhaps more on helping with how to see things and learn various topics in arriving at financial prosperity (and Independence), health and happiness. I think organizing around the concept of doing good deeds everyday can be my contribution, my good deed towards others. Whether you would like to contribute/help, or you may want to learn about financial independence, health and happiness, I hope you will join us and refer people in your sphere to Zenji net. Let’s help each other to a better world! Thanks!